Findom & femdom
What is Send?
In findom slang, a send is a single payment or tribute a submissive transfers to a dominant creator, and 'sending' describes the act of giving money within the dynamic.
'Send' is everyday findom shorthand. A creator might post that she is 'accepting sends', and a fan might say he 'sent' after tributing. It is simply a quick word for a tribute or gift payment.
Sends can be spontaneous or requested. Some creators post a prompt, such as a goal for the week, while others leave a standing tribute link in their social bio. Many publicly acknowledge sends to encourage others, while respecting fans who prefer to stay anonymous.
On MyShrine a send is made through the creator's tribute page. The fan picks a preset tier or enters a custom amount, can add a message, and can choose to appear anonymously on the gift feed. The creator receives 90% of the amount; the fan pays a 10% fee on top, shown before paying.
A send should always be the fan's free choice. Demands backed by threats, or pressure to send money a person cannot afford, fall outside consensual findom and are not allowed on MyShrine.