The WishTender Alternative for Adult Creators and Findoms
WishTender was the wishlist many adult creators and findoms relied on until it closed in 2024 after losing its payment processor. MyShrine offers a private wishlist and cash gifts — on a platform built for adult creators.
Short answer: WishTender shut down in July 2024 after its Stripe payment processing was withdrawn. MyShrine is an adult-friendly replacement: a wishlist with Amazon gift search and cash gifts, your address kept private, plus tributes, paid chat and content sales. Fans pay in crypto, so gifts cannot be reversed by a card processor.
Last updated: September 2026
MyShrine vs WishTender: side by side
| Feature | MyShrine | WishTender |
|---|---|---|
| Status | Open | Closed in July 2024 |
| Wishlist with private address | Yes | Yes (when it operated) |
| Cash gifts | Yes | Yes (when it operated) |
| Adult creators welcome | Yes | Yes, until processor loss |
| Tribute page, paid DMs, content store | Yes | No |
| Payment method | Crypto (cards coming) | Stripe (card) |
| Creator keeps | 90% of your price | — |
WishTender details are from its public pages and help centre as of September 2026. Platforms change their terms, so check before you sign up.
What happened to WishTender?
WishTender was a wishlist site that openly welcomed sex workers and findoms. In July 2024 it announced it was shutting down after losing Stripe, the card processor it depended on. It is a pattern adult creators know well: a platform that works for adult work can disappear overnight when a mainstream payment provider pulls out.
Most WishTender users moved to Throne, which works well for safe-for-work gifting but does not allow explicit content. That left adult creators choosing between a wishlist that might not tolerate their work and splitting their income across several sites.
MyShrine was built for adult creators from the start. Fans pay in cryptocurrency, which does not depend on a card processor approving adult content, and the wishlist sits alongside tributes, paid chat, customs and sessions in the same profile.
Which one should you choose?
Choose MyShrine if you want…
- A wishlist on a platform that allows adult work
- Cash gifts and tributes without an item attached
- Crypto payments that cannot be charged back
- Content, customs and paid chat alongside your wishlist
Choose WishTender if you want…
- WishTender is no longer available
What you get on MyShrine
Keep 90%
You set the price and keep 90% of it. Fans see a separate 10% service fee before they pay.
Tributes
A tribute page with preset tiers, custom amounts and anonymous sending.
Wishlist & gifts
Add gifts from Amazon or take cash gifts, without sharing your address.
Custom requests
Fans pay in full up front. Accept, counter-offer or decline with an automatic refund.
Paid sessions
Video, voice or text sessions booked into your calendar and paid in advance.
Live & paid DMs
Live streams with tip goals, and pay-per-message chat with PPV unlocks.
MyShrine vs WishTender: FAQs
Is WishTender still working?+
No. WishTender announced it was shutting down in July 2024 after losing its Stripe payment processing.
What replaced WishTender for findoms?+
Many findoms moved to Throne, which does not allow explicit content. MyShrine is an adult-friendly alternative with a private wishlist, cash gifts, a tribute page and crypto payments.
Can fans send cash gifts on MyShrine?+
Yes. You can add cash gifts to your wishlist, and subs can also send tributes directly from your tribute page.
How do I move my wishlist to MyShrine?+
Create a creator account, verify your ID, then add items from the Amazon search in your wishlist manager or add cash gifts. Your delivery address stays private.
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