How to Sell Custom Adult Videos Online (Paid Up Front)
To sell custom adult videos online, publish a clear custom menu with prices and limits, take full payment before you start filming, agree the brief in writing, and deliver through a platform that stores the file securely. Getting paid up front is the step that matters most: it removes no-shows, disputes and unpaid work in one go.
Custom clips (sometimes called customs or custom requests) are videos made to a specific fan's brief. They typically sell for far more than store clips because they are personal. They also carry more risk: more admin, more room for misunderstanding, and more chances for a fan to vanish after you have done the work. Here is how to run customs as a reliable part of your business.
1. Build a Custom Menu
A menu turns vague "how much for...?" messages into orders. Instead of negotiating every request from scratch in DMs, fans pick an option, choose add-ons and write a brief. A good menu includes:
- Base options with a clear price and length (for example a short clip, a standard clip, a long clip).
- Add-ons with fixed prices: name use, outfits, rush delivery, exclusivity.
- Turnaround time, stated honestly. Under-promise and over-deliver.
- Limits: what you will not make, listed plainly.
- Resale policy: whether non-personalised customs may later appear in your store.
If you are unsure what to charge, our custom video pricing guide has a formula and worked examples.
2. Take Payment Up Front — in Full
Creators who film first and invoice later lose money. The fan who was enthusiastic at midnight may not be there once the clip is ready. Some creators take a 50% deposit; the cleaner option is full payment before you begin.
On MyShrine, custom requests are paid in full when the fan submits them. You are only notified once payment has cleared, so every request you see is already funded. Your earnings are released when you deliver the video, which reassures fans that they will not pay for nothing.
What happens to the money
| Your custom price | Fan pays | You keep |
|---|---|---|
| £60 | £66 | £54 |
| £120 | £132 | £108 |
| £200 | £220 | £180 |
You set the price and keep 90% of it; the fan pays a 10% service fee on top, shown at checkout. Fan payments on MyShrine are currently made in cryptocurrency (card payments are being added), which means a completed payment cannot be charged back later.
3. Review the Brief Before You Commit
Once a paid request arrives, read the brief carefully before accepting. You have three options:
- Accept if the brief is clear and within your limits.
- Counter-offer if the request is bigger than the option they chose (longer, more complex, extra outfits). The fan can accept and pay the difference, or decline and be refunded.
- Decline if it is outside your limits or you cannot deliver in time. On MyShrine the fan is refunded automatically, so you never have to chase a refund manually.
If a brief is ambiguous, ask before filming. A two-line clarification saves a re-shoot. Keep all communication on the platform so there is a record if anything is disputed.
Requests to decline straight away
Some requests should always be declined, whatever the price: anything suggesting a person who is under 18 or cannot consent, step-family or incest role-play, anything involving real people who have not agreed to appear, threats, blackmail or "exposure" scenarios, and anything that asks to meet in person. These are banned on MyShrine and on most reputable platforms, and a fan who pushes on them is a fan to block.
4. Film, Edit and Deliver
Work through paid requests in order. Batch filming (several customs in one session, with outfit changes between) saves a lot of set-up time. When the clip is ready, upload it through the platform rather than sending files by email or third-party links. Platform delivery keeps a record, keeps your personal accounts out of it, and on MyShrine uploads go through the platform's automated moderation checks.
If other people appear in a custom, make sure they are verified adults who have consented to the specific content, and keep your own records of that consent.
5. Follow Up and Build Repeat Orders
The best custom customers are repeat customers. After delivery:
- Send a short thank-you message.
- Ask if they would like to be told when you open more slots.
- Offer a small loyalty add-on (for example a free minute) on their next order rather than a discount on the price.
A history of well-delivered requests is the best advertisement for your menu.
Where to Sell Customs
Most major platforms offer some form of custom request. What differs is how payment works and how much you keep.
| Platform | Custom model | Creator share |
|---|---|---|
| MyShrine | Menu with add-ons; paid in full up front; counter-offers; automatic refund on decline | 90% of your price |
| OnlyFans / Fansly | Usually arranged in DMs and paid via tips or paid messages | 80% |
| ManyVids | Custom video feature | Reportedly 80% on customs |
| Clips4Sale | Clip store focus | Reportedly 60% on clips |
Rates change, so check each platform's current terms. See our comparisons with ManyVids and Clips4Sale, or browse the full comparison hub.
Keeping Yourself Safe
- Check the background of your shots for anything identifying: post, windows, reflections, unique landmarks.
- Do not agree to film in recognisable public places.
- Never move payment off-platform to "save fees"; you lose all protection.
- Remove metadata from any files you export yourself.
For more on privacy, read our privacy and safety guide.
Writing a Brief Template for Fans
Many disappointing customs start with a vague brief. You can prevent this by giving fans a short template to fill in when they order. It saves you back-and-forth messages and gives you a written record of what was agreed. A simple template might ask for:
- Length — which option from your menu they have chosen.
- Scenario — a few sentences describing what they want, in their own words.
- Outfit — any specific clothing, chosen from what you have listed.
- Name use — whether they want their name used, and how to spell it.
- Anything to avoid — words, themes or styles they do not want.
Put the template in your menu description. Fans who take the time to fill it in properly also tend to be the most serious buyers.
Common Mistakes New Creators Make With Customs
- Accepting everything. Saying yes to requests you dislike leads to burnout and weaker videos. Your limits list exists for a reason.
- Negotiating in public. Keep pricing discussions inside the platform's request flow, not in public replies or comments.
- Missing deadlines silently. If you will be late, tell the fan before the deadline. Most fans are understanding if they hear from you first.
- Undercharging repeat fans. Loyalty is worth rewarding with small extras, not by cutting your core price.
- Opening too many slots. It is better to cap customs per week and keep quality high than to accept a queue you cannot deliver.
FAQ
Should I take a deposit or full payment for customs?
Full payment up front is the safest option for creators. On MyShrine requests are paid in full at submission, and a declined request is refunded automatically, so fans are protected too.
How long should my turnaround be?
Choose a time you can meet even in a busy week. Many creators state 5–7 days and offer a paid rush option.
Can I resell a custom video in my store?
Only if your menu says so and the clip is not personalised. State your resale policy clearly and charge more for exclusivity.
What if a fan is unhappy with the video?
A detailed, agreed brief is your best protection. If the video matches the brief, you have delivered what was paid for. Clarify anything unclear before you film.
How do I get paid on MyShrine?
Earnings are paid weekly on Fridays once you pass £50, currently in cryptocurrency to your own wallet after ID verification.